My babies schooling issues

Tanima - posted on 11/24/2014 ( 4 moms have responded )

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Finally school has agreed and I've met the class teacher. She is such a negetive lady. Although my baby don't have any friends still having a teacher that sort....now I know!!! My girl is dead scared of her teacher. The woman gives away a lot of negetive vibes. I will start her counselling on upcoming Friday. But since I can't do much about the teacher and filling complain won't help...should I just change her school instead??

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Sarah - posted on 11/24/2014

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Is this the first experience she has had going to school? I would stop calling and referring to her a baby. You want her to become a little girl and not a baby. You want her to grow and mature. Even if she is your only child or your youngest child she is no longer a baby and calling and referring her as your baby can be holding her back developmentally. Instead you can say your my big girl, or your my helper, etc. How does your daughter act after being in the class for 10 mins. or 30 mins.? I would not jump to switching schools so quickly. You may have this same issue with a different teacher/school. You may also want to look into why your daughter does not have any friends. How do you know she does not have friends? Maybe setting up a play date with some of her classmates might be helpful both in allowing her to develop those friendships and also making her feel connected and allowing her to feel better about entering the classroom.

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Tanima - posted on 11/24/2014

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Thanks a lot for your reply Sarah! Actually it's my mistake. Yep! Though she is my only child but I guess she have been pampered too much. She never had any kind of problems ever. She always used to love school and yes I knew it from the beginning that she doesn't have any friends at all. But what happened was she had a break of one month when I went to Singapore due to my mum in laws physical issues. After that she attended school briefly. Then started crying out loud that she doesn't wanna go to school anymore. I've tried everything or every way to get her restarted. But that never happened till date. I'm going for counselling shortly. Cuz the girl who used to love school all of sudden flipped 360* don't make any sense to me. On the other hand, she is up to date in her study at home when we sit. First days of this issues, the school restricted me of counselling..on sudden note they just have agreed 24 hours ago. Before hand I wasn't even allowed to see the class teacher. So I was puzzled a bit. After this weeks councelling. I'm planning to invite her entire class at home so that she can mingle or I can create an inviroment or atmosphere of school. But my girl even delined to give the invites to her friends by hand. That pulls me back where I started.

Tanima - posted on 11/24/2014

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No she is 4.6 years old. Upps!! I call her baby. Shouldn't have typed. She is in Kindergarten

Sarah - posted on 11/24/2014

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How old is she? When you say baby I assume she is 1 yrs old or younger.

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