Trina - posted on 01/29/2016 ( 4 moms have responded )
I found out my son's father was married when I was pregnant. After leaving my job in a new province to come back to my home town, I found out our entire relationship was based on many lies. I kicked him out when my son was 3 months because I was angry, hurt and felt betrayed. He has came back 3 times since then and all we did was fight because he started seeing another woman. I found out she was pregnant when my son was 5 months old. He told me to stop texting her because he didn't want her to lose the baby. Since the new year I have only spoke to him about my son but now he says she is not me and wants us to work. He doesn't know how to tell her he says and that he wants her to keep it even if he comes back. I am so torn. I know the answer is obvious to most but I don't know what to do. He says he loves me (which is questionable after all he has done) but I feel obligated to try for my son. I need words of wisdom.