My boyfriend is an adult baby what do I do?

Heather - posted on 12/03/2012 ( 10 moms have responded )

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Hi I just out that my boyfriend likes to be treated like my a baby I am willing to try but my 2 year old needs as much attention what should I do

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Michelle - posted on 12/03/2012

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With this fantasy you have to be 100% comfortable with it as well. Your husband's "needs" should never be put before your childs. Most couples who do this either do it after the children are asleep or after they have left home. I haven't heard of his fantasy taking the attention away from the child before.



You would have to set some boundaries with your husband.

~♥Little Miss - posted on 12/05/2012

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I would not be able to deal with that personally. I am sure there are women out there that would not mind this kind of behavior, but not my deal. I have 2 babies, I don't need to treat an adult man like that. He has a mother. You are the mother of his child, not his mommy.

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Abigail - posted on 01/10/2016

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I have the same problem. My boyfriend is one year older than I am and he wears diapers and likes to act like a baby. I have a 3yearold daughter myself and I feel very horrified and disguisted by his babyfetish. However my feelings for him haven't changed... or maybe they have changed a little. I love him very much but his fetish makes me want to throw up. I want to accept him as he is but every time he texts me he's wearing a diaper it makes me want to throw up. And when he texts me "I want a kissy" afterwards, it creeps me out. I can't help but think that he's sick... I think I would be more accepting towards his fetish if I wasn't a mom myself (I find myself to be a very openminded person) but that's not the situation here. I know it's nothing sexual, I know he's not a phedophile, he doesn't even want to have sex (as it is very unbabylike) and only masturbates and can reach orgasms only in his diapers (oh to make it creepier,, he wears PINK ones) . I do not want to be his mommy. I have already have a baby. I wish he hadn't this fetish of him because he's perfect in every other aspect. And also he loves to watch horror movies... Which creeps me out because I can't help but think he's crazy for wearing diapers and liking horror movies and I get nightmares that he'll go after my daughter because he is jealous of her. I find myself loving him everytime he's 'normal' but when he turnes into this gross adult baby I feel disguisted and I just don't know what to do.

Heather - posted on 12/07/2012

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Thank you all I talked to him and said I should find him a mommy to take care of him and says he would pay someone to treat him a like a baby I don't know what to do.

Heather - posted on 12/05/2012

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He wants me to treat him like a baby I beastfeed now so he wants to be like in infant not sexually no attention away from our kid just well..... Treated like a baby

~♥Little Miss - posted on 12/03/2012

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What do you mean by this? Is it some weir sexual thing? Or is he jealous and literally wants you to treat him like a baby?

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