Brittany - posted on 03/29/2016 ( 4 moms have responded )
Hi, I am 26. I have a 5 year old, AMAZING son. I have been with my bf for 3 years and since day one have been honest with him about the fact that my son comes first. And that I am looking for a man to be part of our family. Overall he has been great and plays and talks with my son everyday. My son loves him and calls him daddy since he is the only daddy he has ever known. He tells me he wants to marry me all the time and talks about kids in our future. Well surprise surprise we got pregnant! second time in 6 months , i lost the first one. I want more kids now , but he has been on fence, but takes risks in the bedroom, and jokes about it. Anyway now that my pregnant he says its a curse and it ruins everything in his life, that he is depressed and miserable. Seriously?! than last night he asked me to get an abortion and furthermore told me that he doesn't love my son , and he just "tolerates" him but sees him as any strangers child. I don't know what to do! I would leave him in a heart beat even though i love him , because me son deserves better, but now my pregnant and don't believe in abortion.