Lauren - posted on 06/13/2013 ( 3 moms have responded )
I have a great relationship with my daughter's father and his wife. My boyfriend on the other hand and I have been together about 5 months, and his ex wife seems to be anything but reasonable. Nothing he does is right in her mind, she always has something negative to say to him. She drags her kids into situations too, which to me is completely crazy. I stay out of it because it is none of my business, it's their children and is between the two of them. Lately, she has been sending me messages on Facebook. I had a discussion with my boyfriend prior and he said I should block her if I wanted to, or I could respond, or just ignore it. I blocked her right before my birthday because she was talking nonsense to him and I just didn't want to deal with the drama, not to mention I have my own life to deal with. Then she was crazy enough to send me a message through her mother's name on facebook. I finally unblocked her, she sent me two more messages, and when they went unanswered she friend requested me. Any advice as to go about dealing with this? I don't plan initiating a conversation with her any time soon, because she is very unreasonable, and it wouldn't end up being good for anyone. I don't like drama, if I had it my way I would get along with everyone involved. If she could be a mature adult about things, and it would actually benefit everyone to meet or even talk, I would definitely be up to do that. My boyfriend is very open and honest with me, he tells me a lot, things that he doesn't need to, and I appreciate that... and she just seems to want to ruin our relationship and talk negatively to people about him. Thanks for reading, I appreciate it!