[deleted account] ( 4 moms have responded )
Well we're do I start...I'm a stay at home mom & I'm 19 years old & a first time mommy to a beautiful 4 month old babygirl. The thing is that me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 3 years (I was 17 when I moved in with him) & every time we argue he's always calling me name such as fat, b**ch, spick, lazy, stupid, ugly & I put up with it..& he's always telling me to leave because he doesnt love me & don't want to be with me. So I tell him if I leave I'm taking my daughter with me & he says that if I do he's going to take me to court to take her away from me. Just because I'm not working & I won't give her what she needs or provide for her< < which it's total bull!! & I f I do leave I know that I'll do anything to take care of her !! But at the back of my mind I always think about everything that he says to me & I'm kind of scared to have my daughter taken away from me so I stay, I do love him but when it comes to my daughter I'll do anything for her!!
Im the one who takes care of her all the time, wakes up in the middle of the night to attend to her (even after I had her I was the one who woke up every night even with all the pain I had). I give her baths, I feed her , I change her dirty diapers, the only ones he changes are just the wet ones & only if I ask if he can do it, he barely does anything!!! & I'm sooo sorry for writing too much I just need to take things off my chest!!!!! :(