my boyfriend took condoms for his vacation. what to do

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[momoftwo] - posted on 03/06/2014

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Never wait for a man to improve because majority of the time it never happens, especially if they don't want to. The fact that he took the condoms is probably so he can "avoid" infecting you again.
And why would he wait last minute to throw out condoms AS he is leaving for vacation.
You aren't stupid at all. You just need to find someone that will treat you better because this guy definitely isn't. He's a pig.

~♥Little Miss - posted on 03/06/2014

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You are not stupid, but you are clearly being manipulated and deceived by someone you should be able to trust. Your love for him has led you to believe his lies. He has cheated on you, given you std's, and now his guilt made him bring you home presents. I sure as shit would not be having sex with him at least until he gets tested for std's. That is if you are going to bother staying with his cheating lying ass.

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Tania - posted on 03/06/2014

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we had a pack of condoms in his bathroom and never used them. he went to Cuba for a week with his business partners and one of his buddy to play golf. i couldn't take time off and he went without me. he brought some presents for me from Cuba like coffee and rum which was strange because he never ever buys me anything for five years of together. . then I went to the bathroom, got my brush out of the shelf and saw that condoms are gone. when I asked him, he got annoyed and told me that he threw them away because they are old and scorgy.
we have a history of him misbehaviour in past. he once infected me with chlamidia and I caught him as well by his tel bills of going to sex massage parlours. he promised to stop and go to counselling. I gave him a chance and waited. after one session he told me that he doesn't like what councillor told him about his attitude and hestopped going for help. as well few times he menntmentioned that if we spice up things and do a trio but not real sex it will help him be faithful. and now he is telling me that I am crazy not to believe him that he has changed for better. please, ladies if you dealt or deal with the same experiences , share with me..m if there is hope or I am stupid to love him and wait for improvement
thank you

~♥Little Miss - posted on 03/06/2014

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If you were not going with him, then you know exactly what to do. Change the locks, move, do whatever but don't stay with a man that is cheating on you.

Gena - posted on 03/06/2014

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How do you know that he took condoms with?I would call him and ask why he took them with,if he is planning to cheat on you,what would make sense since he took them with,and them tell him you why you know that he has them..and then take it from there.Personaly if my husband would go on holiday and i would see that he took condoms with i would tell him to stay where ever he went to.

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