my boyfriend watches porn

Cherity - posted on 11/12/2013 ( 6 moms have responded )

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Ok so recently discovered my boyfriend watching porn... it hurts so much makes me feel like he dont want me or he wants them more than me!! Is this normal

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Jess - posted on 12/27/2013

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Today I logged onto MY computer and since i have a mac it shows all of the recent websites you have gone to and the first thing I see is porn, on my computer, and then he looks me in the face and says no i didn't look at that, wtf?! Not really sure what to do. I am hurt and feel like crap and that I am not enough for him, we have a 14 month and he tells me we do not have sex enough and we do! but I guess not enough for him, he has been so distant and it has gotten to the point where i am looking for places to live on my own i just do not want to break the family up, what do i do?

Cati - posted on 11/12/2013

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For my husband I can understand it when he is away for work. In a hotel for days at a time, ok. But not on your way home from work you stop your car and watch porn. Thats a problem.

Lacye - posted on 11/12/2013

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LOL Hide it better! I love that!

I think it's a man thing. My husband and I have been together for 5 years (married 2) and he still looks at porn when he has a chance. I bet if I looked deep enough on the computer I'm using, I would probably find downloaded porn. If he forgets to log out of Facebook and then I get on, I see naked pictures of women all over it. It's not that he doesn't want you, it's just when you aren't around, he just wants to meet with Fistina for a little bit. Men are horn dogs. That's all.

Lori - posted on 11/12/2013

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I hate to say it, but pretty normal. Been married 13 yrs, 2 kids and I still don't get it. I have brothers, and one of mine got caught with some mags by our Mom. She told Dad to "deal with it". I was SHOCKED at his way of dealing with it. He told my brother to learn to hide it better!!!!. When my Grandfather passed away (moms Dad), we found an entire closet full of dirty mags and videos. And my Grandparents were happily married for 55 years (until he died). My parents are still happily married (and yes my Dad has porn on his computer). I don't know… Personally I don't like it, but it seems to go with the territory of having a Y chromosome.

Cati - posted on 11/12/2013

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Just caught mine too. 9 years and 2 kids. My daughter went on his phone (age 1.5) went to google and bam porn everywhere.

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