C - posted on 08/02/2012 ( 4 moms have responded )
My Bf and I have had an on again off again relationship for the past 3 years. He is 42 and I am 47. I have an 11 year old daughter and he has an 9 year old son. My bf has always tried to rush the family thing, even before I felt comfortable with us, I complied, but have not been able to deal with it. He is constantly trying to push his son on me. I have not been able to tell him how I feel due to the fact of hurting his feelings. Hence the on again off again! I personally do not care for his son and both of his parents parenting tactics. Now the son has been playing the fence, telling each parent they have been mean to him, just so he can get his way! The poor child is overweight, and neither one of them seem to take that under control. ex: quarter pounder with cheese, large fries, 6 piece chicken nuggets, sugar pop and then later a banana shake!! I have tried to mention that this boy needs counseling! Nothing! My child is very active in sports, socially has many friends! The boy does not! He is way immature for his age, and truly i am going to have a blow up because of it. He is very manipulative! My child is also a year into being diagnosed with type-1 diabetes. She does not care for him either! He is just not a fun child, nor is it a comfortable environment with him around.