Vee - posted on 02/17/2014 ( 2 moms have responded )
My current boyfriend and I have 2 small children (4 and 1 yr old). He has a 15 yr old daughter with his ex. The ex also has a dtr by another man whom my boyfriend has been fathering for 8 years now. The ex decided to "try" and file a Protection Order to prevent the girls from coming to our house. Because I work in Health Care and require a yearly FBI report, I hired an attorney and fought the allegation and the Order was dismissed. Since that time, I have forbid the 9 yr old child from coming to the house. He has a court order visitation for the 15 yr old.
The ex has made no attempts in making amends for the harm she potentially caused my education and my career not to mention the cost of the attorney.
I am conflicted in allowing continued relations with the 9 yr old, to me, it would continue the relationship of my boyfriend and his ex. And this I want to STOP.
Any suggestions on how to let go of this drama.......