My boyfriends mother is verbally abusive to me

Nicole - posted on 01/04/2013 ( 3 moms have responded )

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I moved to Florida in march with my boyfriend, his mother had been evicted from her hhome and since she had two teenage girls we let her come wwith us. In august we realized we wwere out of money because she was a ddrain on us, and that I was pregnant. We decided to move home, she then called me every name in the book, said i was faking my pregnancy and she hoped iI fell down the stairs and had a miscarriage. In October I did have a miscarriage :( but on Christmas I found out I was pregnant again, I'm not thrilled we don't want this baby its too soon after our loss but since we can't afford an abortion our options are low. She doesn't know I'm pregnant again, my question is am I wrong to say I don't want her to even know the child's name or see pictures? She calls me names that describe the female anatomy and begin with c. She is an unintelligent, immature, mentally unsound woman of low morals and I don't ever want to see her again

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Lacye - posted on 01/04/2013

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It's technically none of her business. You being pregnant is between you and your boyfriend. If I were you, I would not have any contact with her. Right now, you don't need that kind of stress.

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Lacye - posted on 01/04/2013

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I don't know if I would keep her out of the child's life completely, but she would have to make some severe changes if she wanted to see the child. If she can't accept the fact that you are the mother, then she doesn't need to be around the child. It would all depend on how she acts after the baby is born.

Nicole - posted on 01/04/2013

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thank you Lacye. Would you keep her out of the child's life completely. He sees how she talks to me and it bothers him, he even blocked her on Facebook, but I don't think he'd support this choice

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