Andrea - posted on 01/20/2016 ( 3 moms have responded )
My sons are both single and share a house. I have noticed some really hard feelings, coming from the younger of the two , towards his older brother. He is also putting some serious stress on himself about not feeling like an adult because he still lives with his brother. They SHARE THE HOUSE, it belongs to my husband and I but they pay the mortgage. It is not like one owns it and allows the other to live there.I'm very upset because I hate it when either of them are unhappy, and the younger one seems miserable. He says that his older brother treats him with no respect, leaves messes, doesn't do anything like clean the house, and talks very sarcastically to him more often than not. It's truly breaking my heart, I'm trying to figure out how to guide him, how to cope with it, and just what to do in general.