my child father

Sheila - posted on 09/18/2016 ( 9 moms have responded )

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I have a nine year old his father come once every three months and when he do come he only stays for 10 minutes but his other son he is there for have a birthday party for him but when my son birthday comes he doesn't call or come by I feel like he has his favorite child and my child isn't it should I let him keep doing what he doing or just tell him not to come by anymore

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Ev - posted on 09/19/2016

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Really, Shelia, the others are right. You should have gotten the whole package done in court instead of just child support. If he is not paying the support then take it to Child Support Enforcement.

Michelle - posted on 09/19/2016

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That's why you should have visitation orders.
That way if he doesn't stick to what the court gives him, you go back to court and get them amended. YOU can't decide not to let the Father see child, only the courts can do that. If you tell the Father he can't see his child then, if he wants, he could take you to court for parental alienation. Then you would lose more time with your child.
Getting court orders is protecting your child!

Sheila - posted on 09/18/2016

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I respect people opinion it doesn't mean I have to agree with it I couldn't let my child go years without seeing his father and he just come back in like he been there all the time when he wasn't there when the child sick or be there when he need help with something I thank you for your post

Sheila - posted on 09/18/2016

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I think my child need someone stable in his life and not make it easy for a father to come in and out when it's convenient for him

Sheila - posted on 09/18/2016

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We done been to court for child support that he doesn't pay and I tried everything to convince him to see his son but I have to deal with my child being upset I think how much can my child take when he might see him once every three months

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