Kalyn - posted on 06/08/2015 ( 3 moms have responded )
My Child's Deadbeat Father is going to file for full Custody, How can I beat this action?
My youngest father has not been in the picture since he was 3 years old. I have tried many times to give the father opportunities to have involvement. Then he always had a reason or excuse to not fulfill the agreement. The father has not paid for a penny for my child and for that reason, I knew if I would of filled for child Support I would of never received a penny. The father has another child with another woman and she did file for child support and he does not pay her. So I had made a decision not to get involved with the government system and put my child through drama of not needed BS. I believe anyone can father a child but you can't make someone be a daddy! On top of all this another reason why I didn't want any involvement with the father is that he got in a relationship with a girl that was 16yrs old. that was and is disturbing. The father and girl is still together and she is now over 18, but I just think, I didn't want my child to think that is right and for my child to learn bad behaviours from the father!
Now that my child is going to be 13, I found out that the father has contacted a lawyer and is filling for full custody! OMG!!!!! This is not right and what should I do?