Debbie - posted on 10/08/2015 ( 5 moms have responded )
I'm proud of myself as a mum as they are all independent, professional, securely employed, physically ultra fit & uber successful. All three have independently told me they had the best childhood ever and how I was a fab Mum. My husband and I parted ways and got divorced after 25 years of marriage.
I have bi polar and fibromyalgia. Life is a struggle for me sometimes. Yet they very very rarely visit nor phone.
I feel hurt and affronted, they do know this. I consciously try hard to play it down and want to be tremendously supportive to them. I have tried dinner dates (with varying success) and bought tickets to go to events and they have not turned up, despite me treating them. I ideally would like them to phone or meet up once a month.
People say they will naturally come back to me when they need me. But I need them too? Opinions please. Kudos to all fellow Ladies on this forum