My children's father has had multiple children by diff women since we broke up. Now he wants to introduce his newest girlfriend. Please Help

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Chaya - posted on 07/28/2012

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If you don't want to meet her, or if you don't want your children meeting her, just refuse. If he disobeys, you can restrict visitation, or just send him a letter stating what your rules are.

Jodi - posted on 07/27/2012

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Well, if you think mentioning it to him will help, by all means do. You know him better than us. But as much as you may want to, you ultimately can't control what your ex chooses to do. I know it sucks, and it isn't necessarily in your children's best interests, but there's really not a lot of choice here unless you get something in a court order.

Nicole - posted on 07/27/2012

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His oldest child with mom#1 is 9 months old. His youngest child with mom#2 is 2 months old. This new girlfriend just showed up to the picture. My boys are 5 and 7 and I don't want them to be confused. If I mention something to him, he may do the opposite or do nothing or have a change of heart about bringing new girls around so quickly. OR i can say nothing and get more of the same.

Jodi - posted on 07/27/2012

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Well, you can't control who he introduces your child to.... :\ I agree it is probably not appropriate, but unless you have a court order specifying anything like this, sorry, you're all out of luck.

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