Carmen - posted on 11/14/2013 ( 5 moms have responded )
She intercepts his messages and calls when I want to discuss our children she tells him what he is going to do with his paycheck. When I need so much stuff for the kids now she decides to put stuff in layaway for the kids. He is letting this girl control everything I can't even call and talk to him because she is right there shadowing his phone calls saying no you can't do this or no you can't do that. It is driving me crazy. My kids dad has kids with another woman as well but their kids are older and they haven't been together for years. And the new girlfriend doesn't pull this stuff with the other kids mom just me. Me and my kids dad have a baby that will be here next month and we have a two year old son. Also we have been on and off for 9 years the new woman has only been in the picture for 8 months! Now he has tried to cheat and even leave her for me in that 8 months but she found out and they have broke up behind him still wanting me on numerous occasions. But she took him back again after i told him I didn't want to be with him anymore! Could this be why she acts this way with me and what can I do, because I can't even discuss anything with him without her in our business...