Erika - posted on 08/11/2011 ( 1 mom has responded )
Ok so I have a cousin who is 20. He is such a great guy in so many ways that right now not I nor my family know how to help him out. The story is that there's this girl 18 with a baby about 1 month old who claims it's my cousins. I talk to her and she seems super sure its his. But lately Ive been seeing that she's not the person we think she is and Ive seen on Facebook of all places that shes fighting with some other girls for 2 different guys. My cousin says he wants to take a DNA but he is scared that the responsibility will ruin his chances of makin it to Pro Soccer. He's tryin out in less then a month for Chivas USA. We support him in every way we can but it seems he doesnt want to take the first step in confirming the paternity. Plus the girl always makes up an excuse to him or us for when we want to see the baby who by the way is in the hospital due to being born with Gastrochisis...Its a sad story but I need advice so I can help my cousin out who is like my brother...