Ms. - posted on 11/06/2013 ( 3 moms have responded )
My oldest daughter's father died when she was 1. I met someone when she was 3 and had another child but it did not work out with my 2nd daughters father either. He did step up and wanted to keep them together when my youngest came to visit. But his mother my 2nd childs real grandma really stepped up and takes them to church with them and wants to see them when ever she can. Now my oldest daughter is 12. She says that she isnt treated the same way as her younger sister by her 'grandma' and that she is way to strict to her when she isnt to my youngest. She doesnt want to stay with her ever again. I dont know what to do and of course have no father figure to help me with this issue we are having. I will add my 12 year old is the smartest kid in the south east on paper and in gifted, beta, band.. she is a really good kid... what do i do.. need some opinions!!