My Daughter Father wants his girlfriend mother to watch our daughter he only known his girlfriend and her mom for 9 months and im just hearing about them two, i said no. Im I wrong for saying no.

Mitchelle - posted on 04/17/2013 ( 3 moms have responded )

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The father of my daughter, his girlfriend, and his girlfriend mother all moved in together after only 9 months of knowing each other. He want to get our daughter on weekdays as girlfriend mother watch her while he is at work. He works from 6am to 6pm sometimes 7pm. Is it wrong for me to not want his gf mom watch our daughter when he only known her for 9 months. I don't know anything as far as where they lives, I never met his gf or her mom. All I know is they move in together within a very short period of time. I told him that I had a problem with it and that he should get our daughter when he is off so that he can be there with her because our daughter is 20 months and he has not been there or help me to raise her, he doesn't know our daughter that well and neither do his gf and her mom. I feel like something is not right a couple of days ago he said they didn't live together then the story switch to they live together and he was not going to tell me that his gf mom was going to watch our daughter I had to ask who was going to watch her because of that I feel like something is not right.

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Michelle - posted on 04/18/2013

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He should be having his daughter when he has time off. Visitation is for him to know his child, not a babysitter, girlfriend, MIL or so on.

Michelle - posted on 04/18/2013

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He should be having his daughter when he has time off. Visitation is for him to know his child, not a babysitter, girlfriend, MIL or so on.

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Jodi - posted on 04/18/2013

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I agree with Michelle. However, having said that, is there a court order on the visitation? If there is, you really don't have any say unless you change the court order.

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