my daughter is 15 and is starting to watch porn what should i do?

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When I caught my son downloading porn, I locked the computer but I also reviewed (briefly) what he was watching. He likes anime and ended up seeing some hentai. That's messed up shit (pardon my language) so I also had a long talk with him about the images. I told him that people who make love are good but that images in hentai arne't about loving and respecting your partners, they focus on hurting and humiliating people. It wasnt so much "PORN IS BAD!', it was a conversation that it's also about the message put out by teh makers.

Hentai is crazy. I thought I was pretty sophisticated about sex and porn but I saw stuff that literally gave me nightmares. I didn't want him to even remotely think that was normal or ok. I wnat him to think it's about love and being with someone to make yourself and the other person happy.

So have that talk.

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Tammy Sue - posted on 04/13/2013

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Nothing to worry about I started watching porn at 13 LOL probably learned about the male body more than anyone could tell me. Seen how a mans penis ejaculated What turns him on and how to do it. Yes I admit plenty of time I would play with myself but that was the fun of learning. Back than though it was though VCR tapes and magazines

Sarah - posted on 05/22/2012

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Lock out the computer so she can't watch it. Also explain to her that it's natural to be curious, but porn doesn't accurately portray normal body proportions/ideals and a skewed view of sex.

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