Kelly - posted on 05/20/2013 ( 5 moms have responded )
I recently left my husband of almost 20yrs married and 2 children together and 2 step children for me. My daughter is and 18yr old mom living with her boyfriend at his moms ( which i did not agree ) my so 16yr is with me. There are many reasons why our marriage didn't work and i feel i put all into it but he only gives 20% but work and booze get 150%.....my childrenhave seen this over the past few years. I am not saying i don't take any blame cause i haven't been the perfect wife but have self least i try. since i left my daughter has listened to my husband vent and believes all he is saying and she is not asking for my side. she will not sit down with me so we can chat. the girl i called my best friend is nowy husbands friend and she has pushed her way into my daughters life taking over my role as grandmother to my granddaughter. this is killing me inside but i don't know what to do.....i feel the one who was my best friend purged her way into my life so she could have my family and influenced my daughter terribly. now they are so called best friends which i think is so weird. anyone with any advise?????