LAVITA - posted on 01/24/2015 ( no moms have responded yet )
My daughter who is 3 and my unborn son share the same father. I have a 7yr old son who has my last name because at the time his dad was not present for during or after the pregnancy until i located him. My daughter last name is hyphenated because her father was present as much as he could due to the military at the time. Now that we have a son on the way he's no longer in the military and lives down the street. He doesn't bring up our unborn son, doesn't go to appointments with me or anything. He still sees our daughter and talks about her but not our unborn. He didn't want the baby because it would be his 6th total. I had an emergency abortion in 2012 due to my ovary flipping to the other side and another abortion recently in june 2014 because he wasn't ready. I told him if i got pregnant again i'm keeping it. So our son is due june 2015. I feel as though its a privilege that a father has to earn for their child to carry their last name. He has not been involved in this pregnancy so i feel as though my son should have my last name. Id this wrong?