Jennifer - posted on 06/15/2011 ( 8 moms have responded )
Her father wants a seperate birthday party because we are not together and he and his family would feel more comfortable doing her first birthday party this way. I think its better to do a join party due to all the holidays are done seperate. I think this also has do with the fact that he has a girl friend i don't know what to do. I offered to do the party in a neutral place so everyone could feel comfortable but he still won't give in.. I need to come up with a middle ground so that we both are happy, but for the party to be joined not seperate.