MY DAUGHTER THE DOCTOR 30 YEARS OLD HATES ME FOR I DID NOT LET MY HUSBAND DIE

ANITA - posted on 03/14/2015 ( 4 moms have responded )

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MY DAUGHTER IS GETTING MARRIED IN MAY SHE HAS NOT HAD THE CORRAGE TO SAY TO ME BUT TO MY SON SHE DOES NOT WANT ME AT THE WEDDING

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ANITA - posted on 03/16/2015

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thanks Michelle

But he is doing well and improving it has been a very long road but he is getting
stronger every day and understands everything.

thanks

Michelle - posted on 03/15/2015

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I think you really need to sit down and have a talk with your daughter. You both have things to say to each other and nothing is going to get resolved if you don't talk about it.
There is a point where you can't watch someone you love suffer anymore though.

ANITA - posted on 03/14/2015

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MY HUSBAND BECAME ILL ON 02 JUL 10 HAD A BRAIN BLEED INTENSIVE CARE DEVOLVED A STROKE AND THEN COMOTISED AFTER 1 YEAR HE STARTED TO BECOME WELL IT TOOK A LONG TIME WALKING, TALKING ALL GOOD ON 01 MAY 2012 BACK TO HOSPITAL ANTICIPATED SEIZURE, DISASTER DOCTORS ALL SAYING WELL WHAT DO YOU EXPECT 218 MEDICAL MISADVENTURES THERE FORE TOTALLY I LOST THE SITUATION AS SOON AS DOCTOR WOULD COME TO SEE HIM I BECAME VERY SENSTIVE IF THEY KNEW WHAT THEY WERE DOING AND GOING TO GET IT CORRECT ONE SPECIALIST WHO WAS MOVING ON SAID I AGREE WITH ALL YOUR AUGURMENT S AND IF IT WAS MY WIFE I WOULD DO THE SAME UNFORTUNATELY I AM MOVING ON .

ONE DAY IT WAS A VERY BAD DAY I CALLED MY DAUGHTER AND HER BOYFRIEND AS WELL TO SAY COME AND HELP ME WITH THE DOCTORS HER RESPOSE WAS IT IS OK DAD HAS SUFFERED ENOUGH IF I WAS THE DOCTOR I WOULD NOT DO ANY MORE TREAMENTS MY RESPONSE TO THE BOTH OF THEM WAS WELL YOUR TRADE IS TO HELP PEOPLE AND NOT FOR YOU TO DECIED TO DIE ONLY GOD DOES THAT.

SO I PRESUME THAT WAS ONE.

THE SECOND WHEN SHE DECIED TO GET MARRIED THEY HAD BEEN LIVING TOGETHER FOR 5 YEARS SHE MOVED OUT 4 DAYS AFTER HER FATHER WAS SICK THE FIRST TIME I RANG HER FUTURE MOTHER IN LAW CONGRATULATED AND SAID WELCOME TO THE FAMILY ETC ETC. I THEN SAID HOW DISAPPOINTED I WAS THAT SHE WAS GOING TO MARRY IN THE HUNTER FOR HER AND HER FATHER WAS SO CLOSE AND IT WILL BE VERY HARD TO TAKE MY HUSBAND THERE HER RESPONSE WAS AS LONG AS THE CHILDREN ARE HAPPY THAT IS ALL THAT MATTERS AND I SAID I KNOW, STUPIDED IF THIS WAS YOU WOULD YOU SAY THE SAME THING. AND THAT WAS IT MY DAUGHTER SAID TO ME I WAS NOT TO RING HER CHINESE IN LAW FOR THEY ARE A PRIVATE FAMILY AND HOW DID I DO THAT.

THAT S WHERE WE AT. MAYBE I AM JUST AN IMPOSSIBLE IGNORATE MOTHER
SHE SAYS SHE ONLY WANTS PEOPLE WHO ARE HER FRIENDS AT THE WEDDING IE NO AUNTIES NO FAMILY ON OUR SIDE I DONT KNOW I HAVE STOP CRYING A LITTLE BUT SOME DAYS ARE STILL VERY HARD.

Michelle - posted on 03/14/2015

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For a daughter to not want her Mother at her wedding something big has happened. We need some more background to be able to understand the whole situation.

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