my daughter wants a bikini

Elle - posted on 06/13/2016 ( 9 moms have responded )

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my daughter is 12 and a size 34c bra. i dont know if its ok to get her a bikini at this age. i generally go by maturity and figure more than age, and i know some ppl respect that and some dont, but i really need another mothers opinion. thanks!

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Sarah - posted on 06/13/2016

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A suit that she feels good about wearing as well. I do allow bikinis, but no thongs, no string bikini and no white suits. Also, I want them in suit that they are not tugging and pulling at all the time.

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Nancy - posted on 07/09/2017

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May \I suggest a more modest bathing costume such as a tankini or swim dress with skirt.

June - posted on 08/30/2016

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she's 12.. I guess she can have it, tho, you, as a mother, should pay attention how it looks.

Alisha - posted on 06/18/2016

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my daughter s 13 and also a size 34 c she s very tall but she uses a full bra coverage and what we call 'boy shorts' it covers all of her lower body fits very descent

Elle - posted on 06/18/2016

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she is naturally curvy, but she has lost weight recently so her size will probably get smaller :) i think that her opinion matters about this more than mine, im not saying she should dress like a prostitute, but she is very independent and i respect that.

Ev - posted on 06/13/2016

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I never allowed my daughter to wear anything but a one piece suit. She grew up and stayed with that too. She is very modest. I think as the others say it depends on you and your standards for wearing a bikini.

Dove - posted on 06/13/2016

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My daughters have worn bikinis since they were around 7/8. Prior to that they wore more of the tankini style. It's common, normal swimwear here. They wear ones that cover their butts and breasts well.

Sarah - posted on 06/13/2016

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What does she want to wear and what your personal family standards? How you feel about it is more important than what other people think. A 34 band size is big for a girl that age, is she especially stocky or tall?

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