My daughter wants to meet her dad

Amanda - posted on 02/01/2013 ( 2 moms have responded )

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My 7 year old daughter wants to
Meet her bio dad, he drinks a lot and is a heavy pot smoker and has already abandoned other children, should I wait longer until she is older or should I let her meet him now, I'm afraid because I don't want her to feel abandoned again.

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~♥Little Miss - posted on 02/01/2013

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I would let her, just be present. Talk with your daughter, and let her know that you think it is important for her to meet her father and to create a relationship, but also let her know that he may not be ready for that.

Does the father want to meet her? Since your daughter is 7, how do you know he is still drinking? Maybe he changed his life.

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~♥Little Miss - posted on 02/01/2013

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I never met my father. Even though I know he was an evil man, I still wish I got to meet him for myself before he died when I was 16. I will never get that chance now.

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