mY DAUGHTER WHO IS 30 AND LIVES WITH ME AND HER DAUGHTER THAT IS 3, HAS A BOYFRIEND THAT JUST THINKS HE CAN STAY AT OUR HOUSE OVERNIGHT FOR HOWEVER MANY DAYS HE WANTS AND HE KNOWS EVERYTHING....THIS IS DRIVING ME NUTS!!!!!!

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♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 08/06/2014

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Well, this could have been avoided with a simple contract with your daughter.

If you want to allow your adult (OVERLY ADULT, at the age of 30) kids to live with you, a contract is necessary to outline responsibilities and protect both parties.

If you did not outline expected behaviour and consequences, it's not too late, but again, I suggest that you and your daughter come to an agreement, and both of you write it out and sign it. That way, your responsibilities as a landlord are clearly stated, hers as a tenant are clearly stated, and any gray areas are explained. Gray areas being things like...over night guests...

Jodi - posted on 08/06/2014

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When you 30 year old daughter moved in with you, did you discuss the conditions of her living there? Such as, no boyfriends staying over? You need to sit down and draw up an agreement with her about her board conditions (I assume she is paying board)?

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