Marie - posted on 11/14/2011 ( 24 moms have responded )
I was a really good mom to my daughter, supportive financially and mentally, always spending time with her, but since she turned 19 and found cocaine she has become a very hateful person. She hits me, steals from me and now that she has children (4 months and 4 years, each) and she knows how much I love them, when she is mad she says you will never see your grandchildren again. Last time I did not see my 4 year old for a whole year! She gets pleasure out of being vengeful and I have tried to sit down and talk with her and she just pushes me out of the way and tells me she wishes I was dead. This last time (in Octl.) I took my granddaughter to church with me and we met a friend she is currenlty not speaking to, when I told her about it, she came over enraged that I would talk to this person (who has helped her out over and over and who she now treats like dirt) and when I begged her to sit down and talk to me like an adult, she punched me in the nose and in the face right in front of my granddaughter. I did not call the police but I live across from the police station and since she punched me in the driveway, they saw it all and arrested her. Now she is not speaking to me again and I am forbidden to have contact with my grandchildren. Her fiance says he is trying to get her to let me see them but he is a wuss and I don't believe he is really doing anything except agree with her. I pray for a miracle all the time. Doesn't she see that she is hurting her daughter as well? How would she have felt if I had down that to her as a child?