my daughter won't tell me why she doesn't want to go to her dads

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Amber - posted on 11/20/2012

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try having her draw if she will, maybe she is just confused about something and she just don’t know how to explain it, i find that with my kids, they act out with my boyfriend but i know they just don’t understand the whole idea of one day we were all together mommy and daddy and now things are so different and new to them and they don’t know how to express themselves so they do the only way they know how, so I have them just tell me a story in a drawing it helps them get out their frustrations. I really hope this can help you the way it has me.

Michelle - posted on 11/20/2012

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Hi Amber. Thank you for your message. I've tried getting family members to to talk to my daughter and a good friend of mine to. Her dad has tried taking to our daughter but we've still had know luck. We just don't know what to do for the best. I'm so worried abt her and have tried thinking of anything to suggest why she won't stay at her dads anymore. She use to go twice a week once over night and every other weekend but now she only wants to go every other Weekend X

Amber - posted on 11/19/2012

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i dont know why but kids seem to find it easier to talk to someone else about whats going on, mine did it when it came to talking about there father who was abusive to me. they wouldnt talk to me about it , but at least have a family member who they are close to try talking to them about it, they have to talk bout it though there is a reason weather it small or a big issue, maybe try having her draw a picutre have her do it where she can draw a picture of the things she does while at his house, im not expert but this trick has worked for my oldest. god bless and best of luck.

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