Melissa - posted on 09/27/2013 ( 3 moms have responded )
Hi there! my daugthter is almost three years old, and her real dad wasnt been around for 18 months. Hes seen her maybe 5-6 times when she was a baby! I've been with another guy for the past 3 years ( her whole life) and he has been there for my daughrter since day one! took her on as his own!!! NOW the bio dad messages me through his new GF facebook and wants back into her life.... what do i do??? I feel that the past months werent important to him, why now? Is he only asking cause of the girl friend? My daughter doesnt know who he is.... and idont want her to be confused... and i dont want him to break her heart!!!! My laywer says what he did is called and Abanomship.... Should i let him back in or tell him to go away and she has a stable father figure in her life?? I need helpful advice pleasee!!