my daughters dad just served me for joint custody but never paid CS

Crystal - posted on 10/15/2015 ( 1 mom has responded )

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I was recently served for joint custody 4 days him and 3 days me I FEEL ITS UNFAIR CUZ HE NEVER PAID HIS $23 CHILD SUPPORT AND HE IS UNSTABLE HE LIVES BK AND FORTH WITH HIS DAD IN FRESNO AND BROTHER IN SANGER HE'S NEVER HELPED ME SINCE WE SEPARATED IN 2010 CUZ OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE HOWEVER OUR DAUGHTER I WOULD ALLOW HER TO GO WITH HIS MOTHER (GRANDMA) SHE WOULD SPEND SOME WEEKEND but most the time he was never their or bother seeing her :( SO ON THE COURT PAPERS HE SAID WE BEEN JOINTLY PARENTING AND I WOULD SEND HER WITH HIM WHICH IS FALSE CUZ HIS MOTHER WOULD TAKE HER NEVER HIM .. HE HAS NOT TOKEN HER TO SCHOOL EVER OR A DR. SO I FEEL HOW CAN HE HAVE THOSE RIGHTS.. I AM AGREEING WITH EVERY OTHER WEEKEND FIRST I FEEL HE SHOULD SHOW HE READY TO BECOME A DAD ... HE ONLY SERVED ME CUZ CHILD SUPPORT WAS AFTER HIM.. HE IS ON CASH AIDE AND JUST HAD ANOTHER KID AND HE STATING $150 OF HIS CASH AIDE HER USES FOR HIS BABY ..I FEEL WHAT ABOUT YOUR DAUGHTER.. I AM WORKING 2 JOBS I HAVE MY OWN HOME I'M RENTING MY DAUGHTER HAS HER OWN ROOM AND I ALWAYS FINANCIALLY AND PHYSICALLY TOKEN CARE OF EVERYTHING ON MY OWN..... IS IT POSSIBLE FOR HIM TO GET JOINT AND MY
OUR DAUGHTER JUST RIPPED AWAY FROM ME .. I'M NOT TRYING TO FIGHT OVER CUSTODY I FEEL HE'S ASKING FOR WAY TOO MUCH AT ONCE

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Suzanne - posted on 10/15/2015

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I hope you have an attorney. Sounds like his visits should be supervised. Call legal and social services.

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