Denise - posted on 10/07/2016 ( 7 moms have responded )
My daughter is now 6mo and her father has yet to step up and be a father. I finally had to change my cell number because his new gf thought it would be appropriate to call me. Now all communication with my child's father is via email.
I most recently sat down to speak to my daughters father to see try to get to some kind of understanding and get him more involved in my daughters life. My daughter was a planned pregnancy so I'm not understanding how everything turned to shambles after only 11 weeks into my pregnancy.
Later that same day my daughters father, his new gf and I all ended up in the same place and she thought it would be appropriate to make a show to make me feel uncomfortable and to get my attention. I ignored her because I refuse to fuss with anyone over something I have no desire to have.
A few days later I saw her outside of our work building that we both share and I asked to speak to her. We sat and had an adult conversation. I reiterated to her that I do not have any interest in pursuing a relationship with my daughters father outside of simply co-parenting so there was no need to continuously focus all of her aggression out on me.
Even after her finding out he was cheating on her even now the harassment continues. Im so exhausted over it all. I just want to raise my daughter in peace. I wanted my daughter to know who her father is and for her to build a great relationship with him but it seems that's not going to happen. Im tired of trying. I just want to live in peace.