Kayleigh - posted on 10/06/2012 ( no moms have responded yet )
and later found out he was on drugs (which he started while i was pregnant), I left him and moved away, we have no contact, i have a good job and a loving home, i havent looked back since, now he has a new girlfriend he has been trying to find me, my oldest has contact with her dad often and i have since met a lovely man than i marry next year, my daughter is very advanced and happy, my ex had little interested since she was born , He has since contacted family saying he will get me done for abduction if i dont contact him, I have been advised to stay hidden as he has never benefited her life, i have no proof of his drug use or abuse, I did record him but it cant be used in court, why now? can i get in trouble even though he never bothered before, shes nearly 2 and i haven't seen him since she was 5 months old. Is it wrong to carry on with the good life we have? Hes had no end of chances. The last contact we have he smashed up my house the day my daughter got out of hospital for a tummy bug but her temp wouldn't go down. He called and said he didn't know why he did it and screamed alot of abuse, i told him i wouldn't speak to him again and he said good ur a stupid thick barmaid (calling me stupid was normal while i was pregnant), we never lived together and i was studying to be an adviser at the time with a part time job to support my girls.
I love being a mum and my children are very happy, i spend alot of time with them doing baking, days out and having fun. I feel like everyone on here, they are my world and i need to protect them, thats my job, am i doing the right thing?