My Ex and his GF always call the police.

Bri - posted on 05/11/2011 ( 8 moms have responded )

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I have a bio child with my ex . He has a new gf that has been around 4 months or so. The ex lives not too far away from our home literally 5 minutes. 3 nights a week she stays there and 4 nights with me. Every time we do our child exchange and its his gf that is picking up for his time since he works 2nd shift, she calls the police to my property. I do NOT want police around wasn't brought up around police! She tells them a fabricated story and Im just fed up. Not sure what we can do. All i Know if I get an attorney can he make it so that police aren't always there for "no reason." It really is for a bunch of non sense. If she is going to try to take custody then sorry boutcha! Thanks

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Lori - posted on 01/18/2012

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I say if the GF has a problemwith you when she picks up your child, have it put in the court documents that since we cant get along and she always has an issue with me that she not come to pick your child up. Your ex needs to be availableto pick up his own child. The situation is between you, him and your child. If she cant be adult enough to keep her mouth shut and leave the drama out of a situation where the child is near by, then her whole purpose is to aggrivate a situation and she is a child just like the one she is picking up. I personally do not want my child being picked up by another child!

Grow up or have your own children! You have the upper hand here. Use it , but not on her :-). Take it tocourt since she likes being in the spotlight.

Trasena - posted on 05/12/2011

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I would not let her come pick up my child anymore if she feels the need to call the police. Talk to the Ex about it and tell him how you feel. Hopefully the GF will understand and you guys can come up with a compromise!! If not then... well lets hope that works because it would be a shame any other way!!!

Emily - posted on 05/12/2011

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Are the police finding any cause for coming out? If not, they will soon get tired of her phone calls and she could be charged with making false reports. You might even be able to press charges, I'm not sure. What do the cops do/say when they come out? I would get them on your side and let them deal with her.

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Next time that arrangement comes up...tell her you'll meet her at the police station. DRIVE there and make the child exchange there...AT the police station. Beat her to her own punch.

Firebird - posted on 05/11/2011

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Tell your ex that his gf can't come to pick up your daughter anymore. If she's going to keep acting like a halfwit, he can find someone else to do it. You do not have to let her onto your property, especially if she keeps causing you problems.

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Lori - posted on 01/24/2012

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Wow I'm schocked and appaled at the Judge! How horrible that judge. All I can say is DO NOT GIVE UP! Maybe they are hoping you will. As a mother I dont think you will. I will keep you in my prayers.

Bri - posted on 01/24/2012

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Thanks Lori the judge didn't see it that way, my ex said he doesnt want to deal or communicate with me and my lawyer says FINE ! Since he simply doesnt want to communicate with you thats his problem. we cant force him to talk

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i think that she is being ridicuolous and you should get a lawyer because she is wasting peoples time. there are people who actually need help and what if someone died because of her stupidness. on top of that it sets a bad impression on your child.

Jennifer - posted on 05/11/2011

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I agree. You are not obligated to make the exchange with his girlfriend. The child is with him. If she wasn't trying to cause problems for you and you didn't mind her coming around peacefully to pick up your daughter for him then that would be one thing, but since that is not the case, I would not let her pick her up if I were you because you do not have to deal with her calling the police for bogus reasons. If he wants to get his daughter for his time he can either do it after he gets off of work, second shift or not, or find someone else to do it.

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