Tanya - posted on 04/03/2014 ( 3 moms have responded )
I have been brought to the brink of crying today. usually I don't care what my ex does or says to me but today really upset me.
my 4 year old daughter has a rocket school project to do, so I bought all the stuff for it, I was really exited to do it with her. her father then picked her up from school and she said she wanted to build it with daddy instead. this hurt me because he hasn't bought anything for her since she was born and now I am having to hand over the stuff I got that was suppose to be for us to him. I know it sounds petty but you must understand to him it's just building a half assed rocket and to me he was going to take away a memory. he does not care.
I seem to do everything for her and yet she would rather do things with him even though all she ends up doing is getting stuck watching him play play station until she goes to bed.
what do I have to do? he doesn't even take her for longer than a few hours to which of most of them she is sleeping and he never does her homework. I know she is better off without him as he doesn't do anything for her future but I don't want her to resent me and say 'you stopped me seeing daddy'