my ex husband is neglecting my kids and the judge says that its not enough to cut his parent time but every time he takes them for the weekend i feel like theyre in danger what do i do?

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Jodi - posted on 06/08/2012

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What is he doing that makes you think he is neglecting them? Unless you give more information, there isn't much advice anyone can give.

♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 06/08/2012

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What proof do you have of this alleged neglect? What proof do you have of him endangering your children?

Without solid proof, not whining and nit picking on your part, no judge is going to limit parental visits. And you can't just have visits limited because you "think" that your ex is doing something or not doing something. If you don't have proof, you will get nowhere.

Why do you feel he is dangerous? Why do you feel that they are neglected?

Remember, dads do things differently than moms. Different things are important. If you're assuming neglect because the kids aren't bathed when they come home, or something like that, you're not going to get anywhere with the courts. You have to be able to back up any allegations with proof that was not obtained illegally in order to move forward with a change in orders.

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Dove - posted on 06/08/2012

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Without any details on what neglect you feel is taking place or what danger they are in... the only thing I can say is document everything you witness.

~♥Little Miss - posted on 06/08/2012

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I agree with Jodi. Need more info. What makes you think they are in danger?

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