Kristie - posted on 08/23/2012 ( 7 moms have responded )
My ex-husband just got remarried and he had his new wife quit her job so she could pick the kids up from school, bring the kids to their activities on his custody days - basically be a stay at home mom. I was a stay at home mom with my kids until my ex decided he wanted a divorce. I now must work. We have 50/50 custody. Now I found out he is putting the new wife's name down on forms as their mother, neglecting to put my name down or putting my name after hers so it looks like I am just another relative. Is this even legal?? The new wife has never had any interest in the children in their 3 years of engagement - i.e. going to their activities...dance recitals, school functions, ball games. My ex was very controlling in our marriage. I fear my ex-husband is trying to set up a perfect little family with his new wife and our kids and push me out. I am single mom and do not have the funds he has to fight in court. What can I do? I appreciate any advice you can give.