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My ex husbands wife gets my step daughter most of the time. We have a weird schedule due to what she wants and it isnt fair at all if you ask me but we have been having a lot of issues and i just dont know how to deal with some of them so i need help from some mommies. We get my stepdaughter one night a week and every other weekend and when its not our weekend we only get her 2 nights per week. So the weekends that we dont have her we go 6 days without seeing her. However, we cant seem to let her let us have her another night during the week when its is our weekend because she thinks its not consistent for the child. So our weekend rolls around and she will call everyday until my step daughter is back with her. She will call non stop until we answer or text repeatably until she is able to talk to her. Do you think this is a little obbessive? I want to spend value time with my step daughter and i just feel like she buts in all the time and cant go 2 days without seeing her or talking to her but we dont bother her when she is with her mother? I need help!