Sarah - posted on 01/20/2016 ( 10 moms have responded )
So...where to begin...My ex husband and I seperated in 2011 and divorced in 2012. It wasn't mutual and I pushed for the divorce. Over the next year we really worked on healing and moving on. Finally we got there! We were able to co parent, respect one another, be friends, and give our two sons a sense of family. It was great.....until...a little over a year ago, he met someone. I've always wanted my ex to be happy and find someone who is madly in love with him. His girlfriend, (now wife) didn't like the co parenting relationship my ex husband and I built. Things started to change pretty fast and now it's a complete 180 from last year. Throughout it all Ive continued to try and coparent. Believe me that easier said than done! Ha. Tonight I guess I'm at my breaking point. Tonight was different. He used our oldest son, who is 7, in a power play move, just to try and hurt me. Instead it hurt our son, emotionally. I feel like I don't know this person anymore. If someone would've told me I would be in this position a year or two ago, I would've said they're crazy. I feel so sad, and just want some resolution. HELP!