Sandra - posted on 09/28/2015 ( 3 moms have responded )
I am a single mom of three wonderful boys, they are amazing, humble, hard working kids. We have been alone for a little over 5 years due to the fact that their dad was a drug dependent, abusive husband and father. He recently got his life together, he is living with his current girlfriend and has started paying child support. Although we have absolutely no communication, other than visitation coordination (he refuses to be civil) and I have sole custody, I decided to give him a chance to get close to the boys, for the boy's sake. Recently he started harassing my oldest (15) for him to join the football team, which my son decided he didn't want to be a part of anymore. He has been calling and arguing with him on an almost daily basis, because of this my son no longer answers his calls. To make matters worse, he began posting and tagging him on every single Facebook post related to football; so yesterday my son replied back asking for him to stop pressuring him into doing what he wanted him to do and not respecting his decisions. This man started insulting my son and calling him names ONLINE!! He called him anywhere from lazy to a-hole!!! I am completely appalled by this...I blocked him from the boy's profile and now I am debating the fact that he shouldn't be near any of them, specially if it will make my oldest feel rejected and attacked by this man. He is such a horrible father...but still, I don't want to make a decision solely on this because I am angry and hurt, please help!