My ex's new wife is controling him...help! My ex husband and I have been divorced for almost 5 years, we have 2 children ages 5 and 9. My ex has remarried a girl 20 years younger than him and they had a child together. She also has a 3 year who lives with them and also a 10 year old that lives with her mother becuase she almost lost custody of him. She has an extensive background but no criminal charges. She has erveral assault and battery charges along with several public drunkeness charges.I confronted her about her past but was willing to agree as long as it stayed in the past then there would be no problems from me.My ex was seeing his children just about every other weekend untill a few months ago when they decided to have a drunken brawl in front of them...cops were called and she was arrested for assault and battery again! Well I have not let the kids visit since then. Now she is completely controling when he speaks to his kids and when they speack to him. I tried to tell him that he could vistit with the kids a few hours everyother weekend until all this was cleared up with the court but I asked that he not take my children back around her until I felt it was safe. Now I have been cussed out by both of them for trying to protect my children from her wrath. My 9 year old said that they always argu over me...she is very insecure and jelous ans my exhusband tries to please her so now i have been told that if I call or test his phone ever again that I will be arrested for harrassment. So how is he to talk to his children...he has to call my phone for that! We all got along just fine until the court doubled his child support payments...thats when all the controling started. I refuse to talk to her to go thru him and I will not let him communicate with me thru his son. But that how she wants it and the only way she will accept it. Are there anything legal I can do about all this.

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