my ex wants to come back

Jym - posted on 12/27/2013 ( 5 moms have responded )




My ex left me for someone else. Now he miss our family. This is the 3rd time that I know of he has cheated over the last 19years. He has messed up our kids lives ,my life and apparently his as well. I'm trying to rebuild my life and give my kids a stable home life. I don't want to get back together with him because I feel like he will do it again. Am I wrong to keep giving chances? Am I doing right by my kids not trying to put the family back together?


Jodi - posted on 12/27/2013




Well, ultimately this is your decision, but personally, I'd tell him to take a hike. It really isn't in your children's best interests to see that it is okay for daddy to find another woman whenever he chooses and then for mummy to take him back again. This is not a healthy relationship, and not the type I'd want my children thinking was normal.

It is also not up to you to try and put the family back together. HE made the choice to pull the family apart. Not you. Let him live his consequences.


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