My ex won't let us move to my new husband 2.5 hrs away

Emma - posted on 08/20/2012 ( 1 mom has responded )




Have been separated from my sons father for 3 and a half years now. I'm due to get married in 6 weeks and my fience live 2 and a half hours away. After we get married I had intentions on moving up to him on the Christmas holidays so we can start our new life together and had full intention on taking my son with me who lives with me and has visitation with his dad every 3rd week for 6 nights. My sons dad has informed me that he will not allow me to move because it means he will not get to see our son for the same amount of time as he does now. It would change from Wednesday arvo - Tuesday mornings to Friday arvo - Sunday evening. But because his mum also has alot to do with our son I offered that even if hes away in the mines working that if his mum wanted to see our son and I had nothing planned I couldn't see why ahe couldn't see him and also even if my ex is at work on the school holidays that our son could go and stay with his mum for that week. The reason for me wanting the move is my husband to be is gainfully employed where he lives and it's easier for me to find more work there then it is for him to find work down her. PLEASE I NEED HELP!!!


Lacye - posted on 08/20/2012




As long as you are still living in the same state, there's not a damn thing he can do about it. He needs to suck it up and get over it. He may not like it but he will get used to it. He's trying to bully you into staying so he can be in control. That's all this is.

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