Katie - posted on 02/15/2015 ( 2 moms have responded )
I am so torn here! I love my fiancé and I hate to allow men into my kids life to just let them go ! I have 3 kids a girl 9 and two boys 7 and 5! My fiancé is 5 years younger than I with no kids !! He is always quick to tell me when he feels I'm not doing enough in disciplining my kids! Some areas he is correct! It was just the kids and I for 4 years on top of me working I was exhausted a lot and just let some things go!' Didn't create many rules and I'd cave in easy!! I admit I failed them !but i and doing my best and I have created rules I stick to! My 7 year old and fiancé have had a tough go at it!! From the beginning my son (who felt he wAs the man of the house.. A true mamas boy) he would kick him and say he hated him!! Caused a lot of resentment towards my son from my fiancé!! They havea strained relationship and he says I didn't handle those situations properly!! My son says my fiancé doesn't like or love him and my son tries to get attention by wrestling him and ends up getting hurt !! Long story short my youngest son came to me today and said my fiancé calls my 7 yr old a baby when he cries and he laughs about it!! My 5 yr old loves my fiancé but when he told me this it broke my heart!! Am I destroying my kids by staying!!