Thalia - posted on 04/24/2016 ( 6 moms have responded )
I was with my ex, off and on for 6 years. I'm 24 years old, and he's 22 years old. I was living with him (his mom's place) for about 2 months, after he had proposed to me in early February. I asked him if he wanted to have a baby, and we both agreed. I conceived right away. Fast forward 2 months later, he ended up kicking me out when I was 8 weeks pregnant, and told me to get the fudge of out his house, and when he came back he didn't want to see me or my sh** there. Then he just got his keys, and left. I went to go talk to his mom after he had left, and instead of telling me to stay or something, she just told me her son was sick of me & that it would be best for me to just leave. She told me, "Just pack all of your things, and just go". I don't think she wanted me there either. So I feel like, they BOTH kicked me out. So I packed all my things, and left the engagement ring on the bed, and the house keys, and headed back to my parents house. Really what led to this happening, was just a silly little fight, my ex has anger management issues. He called me 2 days later, asking me if I wanted for him to come with me to the OB/GYN appointments, and I told him I wasn't comfortable with that. He also didn't ask me for me to move back in with him. Instead, he said for me to stay at my parents house, and he would stay at his mom's house, and he would come see me once in a while, and or vice versa. I told him no, that it didn't seem fair to me that he only wants to have a couple of hours of responsibility, and then he just goes back to his mom's house. After a few, couple days of thinking about it, I called him back and told him that even though I didn't agree with his plan, I was willing to comply for the baby. He flat out told me NO. He told me he thought that's what he wanted, but he came to realize he wants nothing to do with me. He told me to go find another father for "it,'' and that he never wanted the baby in the first place. He told me he wanted to leave me in the past, and IF he ever missed me, he would MANAGE. And though I'm ashamed to admit it, I did beg him crying for an hour, asking him to please reconsider. He hung up on me numerous times. I just left it at that. I am EXTREMELY HEARTBROKEN. I am shocked that he would be that cruel to me. I'm even depressed now. I'm trying my hardest to be strong for the baby, but it's extremely difficult. I've already lost 5 pounds in 5 days. Please, I could really use some words of encouragement, and advice. Thank you to all those who read this, and god bless you all.