my fiance has switched over night

Takia - posted on 08/06/2013 ( no moms have responded yet )

2

2

0

Me and my fiance have been together for 3 almost 4 years. We decided that we wanted to have a baby in January. I took my birth control out and we ended up seperating for about a month in a half. During our seperation he slept with someone multi times I begin to sleep with someone but had an emotional break down and couldn't go through with it because I knew I was in love with my fiance. We got back together in march our child was conceived in april. After we became pregnant the truth about our separation came out on both ends. The entire pregnancy has been stressful. One day he wanted to break up because he said there was things he wasn't happy with. This time we were still living together during the break up. One day he cam home and said he was going out of town aug 15-19 to visit a girl he used to date. I was crushed because we had only been apart for 1wk. We got into a huge argument on mon nothing physical but he threatened me verbally multi of times so threatened to call the police and I told him to leave. I'm 5 months pregnant and he leaves on fri and moves to texas to go stay with this girl he just got intouch with. He spended the night over my house on fri night and just rubbed my belly we cried together over and over again. When he left he squeezed me so tight and cried and cried. I also have a son that is 4yrs and he has been around him since he just turned 1 he was a father to him. He felt as though him moving to texas will give him a chance to get himself together to better himself so he can be a better father by the time our son is born. The entire ride to texas we talked and I cried and laughed. As soon as he got to texas he switched. He stop calling stop answering his phone. His birthday was mon aug 5 I sent him a pic of me in some lingerie as soon as I sent him the pic I got a call from texas. I answered it no one said anything. He called me and told me not to send him those type of pictures. I told him I got a calk from texas and he said she wouldn't do that. Right from the start he made me feel like I was lying and making her out to be this perfect person. As the day went on I got another call from texas I answer the phone and I get cursed out. I don't telk him anything. I got a call one more time. I called him and tried to let him know what was going on nit because I was trying to cause confusion at her house but because he's my bestfriend and I want him to know what he's getting himself into. He turned everything around on me and said I was lying. I semt him a screen shot of my call log and he said I probably got a app and called myself. He keep saying shes not that type of person she will never do that. I speak to him today and at first he's talking normal. He was suppose to send me money every wk but the money he was going to receive he isn't and he basically said he's not going to do anything about it. So I have no way to pay my electric bill and its going to get cut off on aug 15. I'm 5 months pregnant I'm not working I live in northern Virginia and I have a 4yr old with no family or friends to support. So now I'm tellig him that we will have to go into a shelter because we can stay here without any electric. And he just said ok like he doesn't give a care about me our unborn son or my son who he calls his son. I asked him why was he speakin to me that way and he said because he was fuc#@$ up with me. I talk to him tonight and he said that we won't see me for a while were not friends any more ill do anything to get him in trouble I'm a lier our unborn son may not be his. Hes saying that I was pregnant before we got pregnant in april. He said that I changed his information on facebook after he told me he deleted his facebook. He told me that I'm crazy and he's going to change his number tomorrow. I told him that its his choice to be in his son life or not and he said no its my choice. How is it my choice when he's changing his number. At first I was crying because he was talking to me bad and made me feel terrible and he's making this girl whom he has inly beenover her house for two days he's making her out to be this perfect woman and making me feel like trash. I was crying at first but when he started to say crazy things like our sone isn't his and I changed his fb info and ill do anything to get him introubke and he's going to change his number I realized its not me. How does someone switch in two days. What is going on? I'm so lost and confused because this isn't the guy I fell in love with let alone the guy I was talking to two days ago. And he's making it seem like she's so perfect. I just don't know what to do

Join Circle of Moms

Sign up for Circle of Moms and be a part of this community! Membership is just one click away.

Join Circle of Moms