MY FIANCE IS AWESOME WITH MY BOYS BUT.......SHOULD I LEAVE FOR GOOD

Shaybyrd83 - posted on 10/30/2012 ( 1 mom has responded )

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MY FIANCE IS AWESOME WITH MY BOYS HE DOES MORE THAN THERE DADS BUT WE RECENTLY SEPERATED FOR A SHORT TIME AND IT HURT US ALL.WHEN WE DECIDED TO GIVE IT ANOTHER CHANCE I WENT THROUGH HIS PHONE AND FOUND OUT THAT HE HAD BEEN TALKING AND TEXTING OTHER WOMEN SHOULD I LEAVE FOR GOOD THIS TIME

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Rachel - posted on 10/30/2012

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Was he talking to other women while you weren't together? This is not something you can be mad about (legitimately). If he was cheating, I always recommend people leave - once a cheater, always a cheater. Cheating is a form of lying so what is to stop him about lying about other things? How can you trust him? And obviously by going through his phone, you have shown your trust in him is nonexistent. This is not a slam on you - this is just a fact. If you don't have trust, you have nothing. You will always have doubt somewhere in your mind and this is not good for you (and by extension, your children). You need to be happy and healthy to give your children the best. Just because you are not with him does not mean your children cannot see him. Some people make terrible significant others, but phenomenal parents. Do what is best for you and your family. Good luck.

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