My Fiance' is having a baby..

Shakiyla - posted on 10/28/2014 ( 4 moms have responded )




I've been with my fiance' since I was 16 yrs old. (I'm 22 now) WE have a beautiful 2 yr old son and are getting married in may. But one thing...My fiance" wasn't always as faithful as he is now and his consequences has caught up with me... He heated on me on my GED graduation day with some.....woman...For months he was pawning between her and I and then one day, I had enough and left. He then decided that he didn't want to lose me and our on and got his self together... But then... we find out that the other girl is pregnant.... Now to be honest I did think and still kind of do, think they are lies but she's been carrying on this long.... But I was devastated .... I cried for hours, days and weeks. I still cry to this day. But one day I'm fine and accept it. And then the next I hate it! Now He's changed and I love him soo much. But I'm so angry and hurt..this baby did nothing to me but yet to me its a living proof of his betrayal... what do i do?


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~♥Little Miss - posted on 10/30/2014




Yeah that is one betrayal I will never forgive, nor could I forget. I would NOT be able to stay with my husband if he ever cheated on me. This sounds pretty recent. I personally would be putting off the wedding. If you don't want to cancel fine....but maybe at least delay it a year to see how things go. As you know, everything changes once a baby is born. And he is a total scumbag. Just wanted to add that.

Jodi - posted on 10/29/2014




If she hasn't had the baby yet, then it sounds to me that your fiance's cheating is not in the past because it wasn't all that long ago. So I'm sorry, I'd be kicking his ass to the kerb.

♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 10/29/2014




Make sure paternity is proven, and that he supports the child, if the test shows that he's the father.

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