Tammie - posted on 09/27/2012 ( 8 moms have responded )
My fiances only daughter died 1 1/2 months before I met him. Does that make me a step-mom or am I just nothing to her. We never met but through family and friends and pictures and videos I am lucky to get to know who she was a bit. But I feel as announcing myself as her step-mother is questionable?? And just fyi the real mother hates me and hates the fact that I talk about her daughter at all. So I dont want to be stepping on toes either.